So Miss Mac and a few of you have asked me about how IT went.
IT occurred the night I wrote about it (8w post-partum). IT wasn’t awful. IT required a few drinks and a bunch of lube (I highly recommend pre-seed since you can inject it in you with their handy dandy little applicator, so you’re slippery from the inside out!).
Honestly, in a way I approached it like it was childbirth… you can’t tense up and be super afraid of it, or it definitely would have hurt a lot more. IT wasn’t earth shaking awesome, but it wasn’t awful, and that I can take that. Overall, it was awesome to reconnect with my husband on a level that didn’t include the baby. Awesome. I missed him.